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The Secret Life of Wedding Vows
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Wedding Vows--How to Turn Them into A One Page Miracle
What No One Ever Told You About Why You MUST Write Your Own Vows!
I have cracked the code on writing wedding vows! This is ground breaking stuff! Because, the truth about wedding vows is that your vows have the potential to attract to you everything you could ever want in your life! That won’t happen if you don’t have a clear and powerful dream and vision.
Here’s what I want you to know about why you must write your own wedding vows so they have a life beyond the end of the ceremony. So they keep going and going and going and going. So they live as long as the two of you do! You write your own wedding vows to create . . .ta da. . . drum roll please ............................................
Writing your own vows could well be the most important and amazing thing that you could ever do in your life together. So I’m repeating it again. You write your own wedding vows so you can create . . .
BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER I HAVE TO GIVE YOU ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT BITS OF INFORMATION ABOUT WRITING VOWS THAT YOU CAN GET FROM ANYWHERE. That way if you choose NOT to purchase my unique Ebook, THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS-How to Write Wedding Vows That Create Powerful Marriages, and Partnerships with its breakthrough technology you will still be able to use this one very important fact to help you in your search to write the perfect wedding vows. (HINT: you don’t have to look any further!)
This one main secret you MUST know in order to write wedding vows that have a long life: It is the cornerstone and key to using my technology on how to write wedding vows that create powerful marriages. WRITE YOUR VOWS TOGETHER IN SHARED and INSPIRED CONVERSATION!
DO NOT GO OFF INTO A CORNER TO WRITE YOUR VOWS AND THEN KEEP THEM SECRET WITH THE INTENTION OF IMPRESSING YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR GUESTS DURING YOUR CEREMONY.
Because the reason you write your own vows is to create a vision for your life and your marriage, and that has to be done in shared conversation with each other. It doesn’t matter at all what anyone else thinks about them. If you impress your guests that’s a side benefit. First and foremost, however, your vows are for the purpose of creating a vision and a blueprint for your life and you can’t keep that secret from each other. Except it seems many couples do just that. Not intentionally. They just never seem to get around to discussing important things like sex, and money, and children, and in-laws, and religion and spirituality and many other vitally important topics. In my Ebook, The SECRET Life of Wedding Vows—How to Write Vows that Create Powerful Marriages and Partnerships, I give you a workbook presented in a very interesting way that outlines many of those important areas. This will help you to arrive at the point of conversation well prepared. What you are going to do—together—is to create what may well be the most important document you will ever encounter. If you spend time in directed and meaningful conversation that document will be wedding vows, not divorce papers! The benefits to writing your own wedding vows together are so profound I can only begin to list them here.
We could go on and on and on but you get the point. Or points. Now for some magic thinking. Except there is no such thing as real magic. It can all be explained on some level. What I want you to do is to take the discoveries about how the mind works and integrate them into the writing your wedding vows. Because, you see, one of those discoveries is this: Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined!
Your subconscious mind is a little like an operating system in a computer which can’t do anything it hasn’t been previously programmed to do. Most of those programs in our own minds are our memories. Some of them are collective memories and family memories and you might want to explore that a bit.
Because, our memories drive our lives. What is important to do is to create new memories that we consciously and mindfully choose.
That one discovery about how the mind works has vast and very important implications for you.
Because, you can make your mind believe whatever you want.
You are going to begin to consciously create a strong vision and dream for your life and the life of your marriage.
It’s important that you sit down and talk together and paint your wedding vows with the colors of your imagination verbalized.
I want you to have the most amazing beautiful life possible.
All I’m asking is that you take a little time to get clear about what it is you want, talk about it, write it out, pledge it and then keep on reviewing it over and over and over and over. This may surprise you: It’s not the words you use in writing your vows that are important.
It’s the power you put into the words that is the SECRET to their long life.
That power is a shared, articulated vision!
In other words you are going to create a powerful and precise Law of Attraction.
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“When you know where you want to go you kick in the Law of Attraction. The law of attraction is already working on an unconscious level, everything you are getting in your life you’re bringing to you because of the Law of Attraction.
But at a certain point you have to awaken, you have to become conscious and you have to take control and you do that by having a vision.” Joe Vitale
You can read more about the Law of Attraction in my blogs.
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Your vows are going to become a Law of Attraction. Or a one page magnet! Or a One Page Miracle. But miracles don’t just happen. They have to be built into your thinking, into your mindset. You are going to fuse your dreams and your vision into your wedding vows and then burn your wedding vows into your brain and your lives. You are going to get to the heart and soul of your dream. You are going to have an amazing life that just keeps going and going and going and going. Whatever you give your attention, emotions and feelings to will be reproduced in your life. That happens because everything is connected in some invisible, or spiritual, level. Every rock, person, animal, plant and thing is tied together with invisible threads of energy. It’s the energy of your emotions and feelings, imagined or otherwise, that act like magnets that draw to you what you are focused on. You are going to craft a vision that is so powerful and magnetic you attract the people, the things, the experiences and the ideas that match your dream. Effortlessly! That dream has to be
that it stands up on its own legs and begins to move on its own power! You are going to consciously and deliberately articulate a clear, strong, passionate vision because we are drawn to those things we mentally imagine, write about, speak about, and, in this case pledge and promise. Enough, already. I get it. You want me to sit down with my partner and imagine our perfect life together and then write it down as promises to each other. Yes, you’ve got it. I couldn’t have said it any better myself. I can’t wait. I want your book now so I can get started!
For those of you who need a little more information, encouragement, and thought, read on. When you write your wedding vows with passion, purpose and power, infusing your dream into . . .
You will draw to you, almost effortlessly, almost miraculously, everything you need and want that supports your life, the life of your spouse and the life of your marriage. You are going to brand your thoughts, feelings and ideas into the vows you write and then speak to each other. Then by reviewing them over and over and over again you burn them into your mind, your body and your life. At that point they have become . . . YOUR ONE-PAGE MIRACLE! YOUR ONE-PAGE MIRACLE! YOUR ONE-PAGE MIRACLE! MIRACLE! MIRACLE! MIRACLE! MIRACLE! MIRACLE! Let me say it again, it’s never too often, the SECRET to long lasting, passionate, loving relationships is to have a shared vision and to write it down. I am going to help you get very clear about that dream you have for your life together with a simple, yet profound, method because I know a SECRET. Several actually. If you’ve read closely I’ve given you a number of them already. Let’s take a look at what they are.
50% of First Marriages Fail! I know you don’t want to hear this but before we go any further it’s important for you to take a look at the divorce statistics because I think they are important. Important enough for you to take notice of and be concerned. 50% of 1st marriages will end within 4 years. Some don’t make it past the honeymoon! Second and third marriage statistics are even more disastrous. Yet, all of these couples started out by being madly and gladly in love with each other. Somewhere along the way, those same couples that pledged undying love while lying in each other’s arms, began to keep each other ‘at arms length’ and finally fell sadly and madly out of love! Many of these couples even wrote their own vows. If that is so then why did things go wrong? I believe it is because they never put any deep thought and power into the vows they wrote. They each wrote their own vows without the benefit of articulating the passion of their relationship in ways that created a solid vision that magnified their dreams. At some point all those couples went their own ways. I want you to get to the point where you are “living the dream” way beyond those 4 benchmark years. I want you to be joined ‘at the hip’ with the purpose you write into your vows. Here’s a quote from someone I gave an event brochure to: “I am going through a divorce right now. When I read your brochure I realized that my husband and I did not take any time to talk about important areas of our life. If we had a program like this I believe things would have been different!” Anne S.
I want you to have the best chance ever. And so do you. I know because you are here at this site and that is no accident. Your intuition knew where to send you. I’m inviting you to create a powerful and precise document that becomes your Law of Attraction that will draw to you need to support your dream, your vision of the perfect life together. It’s the power you put into your vows that keeps them going and going and going and going. But first you have to craft that vision, that dream of your life together in shared conversation. A dream doesn’t just happen. A dream has to be conscious. A dream has to be intentional. Having guidelines help. And I can help you with, because I understand it how to do it and have created an Ebook and an Ebooklet with the technology to help you do just that. What makes you so special, you ask. Where does your authority come from? Let me answer that. It’s sort of a story and stories are good teachers. For many years I was a non-traditional, new thought minister. People who came to me wanted one-of-a-kind unique weddings and they wanted to write their own vows. But they didn’t know where to start. I gave them some simple advice and instructions so that they could design a life. For themselves. And for their marriage. I was amazed at the strength, purpose and meaning those couples put into their vows as a result of my simple suggestions. They fairly sizzled with the energy of the Universe. Then I retired from the ministry. A few years later I attended a conference on Internet Marketing. Someone asked a question: “What is it that you know that you could put into an Ebook?” I answered to myself, “Well, I know about weddings.” Then I dug a little deeper and I realized that I knew something about writing wedding vows. I began to write an Ebook about writing wedding vows. I wrote The Ten Commandments of Marriage, a simple and practical document and life guide. I asked a friend to put together a web site and I began to write sales letters. Many of them. I began to write articles about writing wedding vows that I never sent out because I knew there was a missing piece. I still hadn’t realized that I had cracked the code on writing amazing wedding vows. I began to write a blog. (There is lots of good stuff in there that will help you understand further the Law of Attraction as well as my perspective on why you must write your own wedding vows.) I started to put together a 1-day event for couples where writing dynamic, powerful, magical vows would be the result. I wanted to give them one uninterrupted day where they could focus on themselves, each other, and their dream for their life together. And then it hit me! I wasn’t telling people how to write wedding vows. I was helping couples to create the blueprint and foundation for a phenomenal relationship and partnership. I was helping them to think bigger than they ever had before. I was teaching them a SECRET for success!
And I want to teach you that secret. I want you are to take some time to consciously and intentionally create a document that will stand the test of time! This brings me to a couple of other important ideas that I think you need to know and then we’ll get on with what you can expect to get from my Ebook and Ebooklet.
The time around your wedding is the most highly charged time you will ever have in your life! It will NEVER come around again. DO NOT SQUANDER IT! What happens is that there is all this energy and creative excitement around the wedding and the dreams for your life together as a married couple. The florist, the caterer, the cake maker, the wedding planner, the wedding attire people, the guests, absolutely everyone . . . . . . is focused on YOU and YOU and YOU! This creates an oasis of energy around you that will magnify and amplify as a creative force that you can use. By consciously using this highly charged energy you multiply it by directing it through your vows for specific purposes. In this case a dream of a life together! You are going to take advantage of this phenomena by having what might be the most important conversation you will ever have in your entire life! I want you to be mindful about what it is you want to experience in your relationship and marriage, talk it out, play with it, shape it a bit and send it soaring off!
This stuff is amazing!
It is so good. OK, let’s move into another SECRET in the life of wedding vows: This last bit of information I call THE ULTIMATE SECRET TO A HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE. You’ll find it explained further in the Ebook.
REPETITION
IS THE ULTIMATE SECRET TO KEEPING YOUR WEDDING VOWS ALIVE AND THRIVING.
Just because you pledge your vows to each other at your wedding doesn’t mean you are finished with them. Not by a long shot! It’s one thing to write beautiful, meaningful vows and another to keep them alive. You forge them into the network of your minds and lives by reading them every day! Here’s a FREE tip from the book and the booklet: print out copies of your vows, have them laminated (you’ll use them a lot) and read them every night before going to sleep. That way they will go to work while you sleep. It’s likely that when you wake in the morning you will have new ideas, or answers to questions you’ve needed answers to, or an intuitive drive to go, or do something specific. I’m telling you, this stuff is magic! Sometimes you will read them by yourselves and other times you will take turns reading them together. That buries them deep into your consciousness, and keeps a door open for conversation. (I’m going to help you understand this more fully in the Ebook.) Many, many couples never get in a habit of deliberate, meaningful conversation. Not being able to communicate is a dream killer. Reading your vows together at least once a month continues to reinforce your intentions and creates a habit that will serve you well. What I’m asking you to do is to be mindful about what you want, create the outline for an invisible tattoo by writing it down, choosing the colors by giving it attention and then by rubbing in the ink until it becomes permanent.
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Make this your life mantra: Think it--ink it--review it. Think it--ink it--review it. Think it--ink it--review it. Let me recap what I have given you so far.
Writing your own personal wedding vows may well be one of the most defining moments you will ever experience during your life together.
Can you imagine not doing everything in your power to make something as important as your life together turn out right?
Of course it doesn’t. That’s why I have developed a simple method to help you do just that. You’ll find it in the Ebook, THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS—How to Write Wedding Vows That Create Powerful Marriages and Partnerships First I step you through the basic spiritual and mental technology that you are going to use so you understand more fully just what it is you will be doing and why. Then I give you several different idea generators that will help you get to the heart and soul of your dream. You may use one or two, or all of them, or none of them. They are there to help you when you sit down together to create magic! One of the generators is a workbook that helps you to get incite into just about any area of your life together. It is put together in a very unique way. It can be used either before your marriage ceremony or later. Either way, I suggest you take some time with this. There are also some sample wedding vows, sample readings, including The 10 Commandments of Marriage, a simple and practical document that I wrote for my daughter’s wedding. (That’s her in the picture at the top.) You also get two one-of-a-kind wedding ceremonies as a bonus. I wrote them for two of my couples. By making some changes you can even use them for yourself. Ebook or Ebooklet? I don’t want all that fancy, smancy stuff, you say. I want to keep it as simple as I can. I understand the importance of writing mindful wedding vows around a shared conversation and vision but I don’t want all that other stuff. Ok, then let’s make it simple. For those of you who don’t want everything that the Ebook has to offer I put together an Ebooklet with only the ‘why’ and the ‘how’ of writing wedding vows. You also get the 10 Commandments of Marriage. If, after you have purchased and perused the booklet you want the whole thing, there will be a link in your booklet that will take you to a page where you can purchase the entire book by just paying the difference. If you decide you don’t want either the book or the booklet but want the 10 Commandments of Marriage you can purchase just that. See link further down the page. The Ebook THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS— How To Write Wedding Vows that Create Powerful Marriages and Partnerships! First, let’s take a look at what you get with the full book,
BUT THAT’S NOT ALL. I HAVE SOME BONUS MATERIALS I WANT TO GIVE YOU! Bonus #1 Two one-of-a-kind wedding ceremonies These are ceremonies that I wrote for two of the couples I married. I share some personal information and give you suggestions for your wedding ceremony based on what I learned working with couples. By changing some of the personal information you can easily adapt one of them for your own wedding. Or combine them by taking just what you liked from each one. Bonus #2
Naming Ceremony Most of you will not need this ceremony now. A few of you will, however. It is a non-traditional, non religious ceremony to introduce a child to the world. It’s a little like a baptism but more spiritual than religious. Easily adapted for personal use. Share this beautiful ceremony with someone else. Bonus #3 If Eyes are the Windows of the Soul Then what is Poetry? This is the story about a grand passion and a series of poems that were written twenty five years ago. Then they disappeared. I gave them up for lost. When I started working on the EBook I thought how they would make a great bonus item. But since they no longer existed I gave the idea up. Then one day my sister came by with a box I had given her many years ago for safe keeping. You know what I’m about to tell you, don’t you. Yes, there was a copy of the book in that box! Coincidence? I don’t think so! Here’s the entire contents of the book at a glance..
Because the Ultimate Wedding Vow EBook is conveniently packaged as a downloadable PDF file, there’s no shipping cost and no waiting for your package to arrive! Click Here to Buy The Full Book, THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS and Secure Your Free Bonuses! I absolutely have to have the entire book.
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I guarantee everyone who uses the Ebook, or the Ebooklet, THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS, that if you can’t find at least one thing that you can use to write amazing wedding vows I will refund your money. Just Email me within 60 days and I will send back 100% of your money. Remember, there’s no risk to you whatsoever! If you do not think the book is worth what you paid just Email me at Linda@WeddingVowsandCeremonies.com and I’ll refund you all your money. The Ebooklet contains the ‘why’ and the ‘how’ about writing wedding vows that create powerful marriages. I’ve taken out everything but what I think you absolutely have to have to take advantage of my technology. You also receive The 10 Commandments of Marriage because I think they are important enough for you to have them with a separate link to a framable copy. If, after you have looked at the booklet you want the full book there will be a link where you can purchase the entire book by paying only the difference. The booklet will be enough for now. Thanks anyway. The guarantee also applies to the Ebooklet.
Thank you! Whether or not you decide to purchase the amazing book or booklet, I want you to have the very best experience possible during this amazing time in your life. May joy fulfillment laughter and love be yours now and forever! I’m no longer performing weddings but I might be persuaded to come out of retirement if you are thinking of having your wedding ceremony in a hot air balloon! Live well. Live strong. Stay passionate! With love, light and laughter, Rev. Linda Bardes The Wedding Vow Coach RevLinda@WeddingVowsAndCeremonies.com Copyright 2007 Linda A. Bardes
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