By writing your own personal wedding vows, you create the single
most important tool you can ever have in your marriage toolbox.

Learn How to Write Powerful, Meaningful Wedding Vows That Keep the Intimacy in Your Marriage Alive and Thriving Forever!

From the desk of Rev. Linda Bardes, Minneapolis, Minnesota

Dear Friend:

I asked my nephew and his wife recently what they attributed the huge success of their marriage to because it keeps getting better and better all the time.

I can see it.

Everyone can see it.

Something wonderful is going on there.

“You,” they said.

“Me?”

Then they reminded me that when we sat down to talk about the ceremony I was writing for them I gave them some guidance and guidelines on how to go about writing their own personal and unique wedding vows.

“”You told us to sit down together and talk about the dream we had for our own individual lives and then talk about the dream we had for our marriage.

“Talk about what is really important then put those ideas into vows, you said.”

Then I told them to read those vows every day so they would never forget them or get too far away from where they wanted to go.

Eight years later they have one son and another on the way. They just bought a house; they are both in work that supports them financially, emotionally, intellectually and creatively.

They are ‘living the dream.’

And they did all this with vows written on one sheet of paper!

I want you to be living your dream. I want your relationship to stay alive and sizzling long after the ceremony.

I want your passion for each other and your marriage and partnership to explode out of the ballpark and keep on flying.

Mine didn’t. It started OK and then sizzled out quickly.

“I Flunked Out of My Marriage and

I Don’t Want You to Flunk Out of Yours.” 

There were a lot of problems but here’s what I attribute the ultimate breakup of the marriage to: we had no goals and no dreams to work towards and no goals and dreams to hold us together.

We did not take time to talk about what it was that we wanted as a couple, or a family.

We did not infuse our lives with a purpose or a goal to give it meaning. I think we thought that we had a direction but we never actually talked about it or found a focus.

You have to talk about your goals and dreams. Then you have to write them down. Once you have written them down then you can decide what you will do to keep them alive and thriving.

“I am going through a divorce right now. When I read your brochure I realized that my husband and I did not take any time to talk about important areas of our life.  If we had a program like this I believe things would have been different!”  Anne S. 

“Little Did I Know That When I Gave Pete and Christine

Those Simple and Easy to Use Guidelines I Could Change

The World of Relationships Forever.”

You already know that once you have installed a program or operating system in your computer you cannot get it to do anything that it hasn’t been programmed to do.

Look, here’s what I want you do to: Get so clear about the kind of relationship and life you want to lead and then take some small steps every day to keep it alive and in front of you until it becomes your life operating system.

You are going to make that dream or vision so powerful that nothing can override it.

It is absolutely possible to do this easily.

“Here’s what I did: By Combining the Powers of Science with the

Power of Writing Personal Wedding Vows, I Unlocked For

The World the Greatest Relationship Tool Ever Known to History. ”

This is going to knock your socks off!!

Your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between something that is real and something that is imagined!

This means that you can make something real by imagining it, talking about it, writing it down on ONE piece of paper and then keeping it alive and thriving by giving it a little attention every day.

Maybe we should call it a One Page Miracle!

I’m totally serious about this.

Science has been able to prove that the subconscious mind does not know the difference between what is real and what is imagined!

This has vast implications for you.

It means that your vows have the potential to become a magnet and bring to you everything you could ever imagine to be ‘living the dream.’

The best part is that it can all happen easily. Don’t make it all harder than it needs to be.

Hard is not OK. If you attend to the little things the big things will take care of themselves. This nonsense about having to ‘work hard’ at marriage is for people who actually believe that is the way things ‘have’ to be.

Not for you! It does not have to be that way.

What if you could ensure the successful outcome of your marriage by taking just a little time talking about the dream you have for your marriage, then writing that dream down as vows—on one piece of paper?

“Here’s the Basic Technology I Discovered

And Developed into a Magic Formula.”

1.      You WRITE YOUR VOWS TOGETHER AS A RESULT OF SHARED and INSPIRED CONVERSATION.

2.      You DESCRIBE the DREAM OF HOW YOU WANT YOUR LIFE TOGETHER TO BE then infuse that dream into every letter, word and phrase by writing your vows as promises to each other saying how you are going to keep the dream alive and thriving.

3.      You PLEDGE AND PROMISE those vows at your ceremony to give them authority.

4.      You continue to REREAD THOSE VOWS EVERY DAY to keep them in front of you and to install them as your life operating system.

“I Studied Mental Science for 25 Years and by Experience and

Inspiration Learned How to Harness and Focus It on the

Subject of Writing Wedding Vows.”

Believe me when I say that 99% of the couples are completely missing the mark. Even if they write their own vows they usually write their vows alone. They want to ‘surprise’ their partner at the ceremony. They miss out on what could be the single most important opportunity they have to activate what could be called a Law of Attraction.

This means that their vows are like a magnet attracting easily everything they need to be ‘living the dream.’ This includes people, things, opportunities, experiences and ideas!

Who would have thought that doing something as simple as writing wedding vows would give you such a huge advantage?

“Here’s One More Important Piece of Information I think

You Need to Know Before You Decide to Buy My eBook. This

Is so Important that it Boggles My Mind Every Time I Think About

How Clueless Even the Experts Have Been.” 

1 + 1 does not equal 2. It equals 11!

Here’s what happens: Everything is lined up in your favor.

The wedding planner, the caterer, the cake maker, the florist, the wedding attire people, the printer, your family, your friends, your friends friends, your minister, the stars and planets; absolutely everyone and everything is focused and aligned with your well-being.

This creates a tsunami of good will carrying you along in its path. You can tap into this universal source of energy and consciously direct it for your benefit. You do that through your vows.

Here’s an important fact for you: There will never be another time in your life with as much creative power around you as there is around your wedding or commitment celebration.

DO NOT SQUANDER IT!

It will never come around again.

Let me remind you of this: one of my discoveries is that your mind doesn’t know the difference between what is real and what is imagined. When you reread your vows you reawaken the cellular and spiritual memory from when you wrote that dream and pledged those vows at your ceremony.

Is this awesome or what?

So here you are holding dynamite and you don’t even know it.

Ask yourself this:

Am I going to throw it into an empty field and watch the dirt blow up . . .

or . . .

Am I going to throw it into a mine where I know there is a vein of rich gold waiting for me to mine it?

“This is the Opportunity of a Lifetime.”

I cannot stress this enough unless I jumped out of your computer screen and kissed you on your cheek!.

I’ve taken everything you need and put it together into one package.

In fact, there is probably more than you need because when I first wrote the book I thought that in order to sell the book I had to ‘bribe’ people with lots of bonuses. Those bonuses are still there but when I rewrite the book I will be taking them out.

 “Here’s What You’ll Get When You Order the Most

Absolute Must-Have Wedding Vow Ebook Anywhere.”

 “A Look at Some of What You’ll Find in the Ebook,

THE SECRET LIFE OF VOWS-How to Write

Vows That Create Powerful Marriages and Partnerships.”

Also included is a naming ceremony, which is sort of a non-traditional way of introducing a child to the world. Most of you won’t need this. But a few of you might! Pass it on. It’s really a beautiful ceremony.

There’s also a book or original poems, If the Eyes are the Windows of the Soul Then What is Poetry?

“Let Me Confess Something! I Want to Be Totally Upfront.

There is a Flaw in My ‘Big’ Book.

 When I asked several people to critique the SECRET LIFE OF VOWS they told me it would be helpful if I gave some examples of phrases that couples could use based on the dream or vision they crafted for their life together.

They said that while my book was a breakthrough around writing wedding vows, I had to realize that not everyone would find it easy to put their dream into the words or vows that they promise at their ceremony.

I had to agree with them.

Fortunately I had something waiting in the wings that would correct that.

“The 30 Minute Miracle”

Originally I created the eBook, The 30 Minute Miracle, for people who showed up at the site with only a few days, or hours, even, to write their vows.

What I did was to take everything they needed and put it in one easy to use place. In the time that it would take them to go in and out of wedding web sites they could have finished vows.

I  included lists of phrases, lists of words, readings and poems they could take lines from and some other stuff I thought would be helpful.

I thought it was a great idea. I was going to offer it for sale.

Then I reconsidered because the premise of the book did not match my philosophy.

I do NOT believe you can write vows that have the power to keep going and going and going by writing your vows in 30 minutes.

So I took that Miracle book and added it to the purchase price as a compliment to the SECRET LIFE OF VOWS.

In fact, when I rewrite the book I will be including this right in the book.

“Here’s How to Get the Most Important Book on How to Create Marriages and Partnerships that Keep Going and Going and Going.”

“Now It’s Your Turn to Do Something so Extraordinary

You Will Thank Me Over and Over Again.” 

When you purchase THE SECRET LIFE OF VOWS you have immediate access to all the bonuses and downloads.

Today you can download everything for only $19.95

This includes:

• the original book, THE SECRET LIFE OF VOWS
• the 30 Minute Miracle
• a framable copy of the 10 Commandments of Marriage
• and a separate copy of the Best Life Ever Workbook for easy use

I’ll also send you FREE notices of updates to my articles, and notices of all the new stuff I’m in the process of creating to help you ‘live the dream.’

The Secret Life of Vows, Ebook

For Just $19.95

Click on the Coffee Cup

“Still Unsure? Did You Know That I’ve Made This Offer

100% Completely No-Risk for You by Offering You a

90-Day No-Questions-Asked Money Back Guarantee?”

I’ve already seen what this new breakthrough in writing wedding and commitment vows can do for couples.

I want you to see the same results, too.  

Now look. I know for a fact, 100% no questions about it, not even a second thought, that this information is powerful and works.

It is the single most important tool you can ever have in your marriage and relationship toolbox.

You have absolutely nothing to risk because I’m taking all the risk offering such a bold guarantee.

I truly believe with all my heart that the SECRET LIFE OF VOWS-How to Write Wedding Vows that Create Powerful Marriages, will make a huge and dramatic impact on your life and marriage.

“Maybe I have to Outline Some of the Benefits You’ll Receive From

 Writing Your Own Wedding or Commitment Vows.”

Let me repeat a little of the copy from earlier in this letter:

“So here you are holding dynamite and you don’t even know it.

Ask yourself this: Am I going to throw it into an empty field and watch the dirt blow up . . .

or . . .

Am I going to throw it into a mine where I know there is a vein of rich gold waiting for me to mine it?”

This book is your gold mine.

The Secret Life of Vows, Ebook

For Just $19.95

Click on the Coffee Cup

Thank you so much for your order today and I can’t wait to see what you’re creating in your life!

Love, light and laughter,

Rev. Linda Bardes, The Wedding Vow Coach

Helping couples write down the dream and then live it!

PS: Of course I don’t know how motivated you are to do whatever it takes to have the most amazing life and marriage possible. I only know that the secret that I discovered and put into writing powerful vows is like giving you a hammer and more nails than you could imagine to build the life of your dreams.

PS: Why not try my book and my guidelines for writing vows that keep going and going and going and see for yourself just what is possible? Wouldn’t that be the wisest choice? Remember, your purchase is completely refundable.

OK, I’m Sold. Click here to purchase the book.

PSS: Although I’m no longer performing weddings I am willing to come out of retirement if you want to get married in a hot air balloon!

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