When I was growing up the philosophy about raising children in my family did not subscribe to lifting morale.
It was about criticizing instead of praising.
I suspect that a lot of us grew up that way. If that was the way your family operated then that is the behaviors you will bring into your marriage. It’s [...]
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You sat down together and talked about your life together; you finished writing your personal wedding or commitment vows; you’ve read or recited them to each other at your ceremony; and now the honeymoon is over.
A shit-uation has arisen in your relationship that threatens to undermine your happiness.
Reality has set in. Except that I teach [...]
When writing wedding vows maybe it would be a good idea to promise to ‘practice kissing every day.’ Not just a little peck on the check, or a brush of the lips, but the real endorphin triggering smooch!
Because studies on kissing have unlocked the secret behind that perfect smooch. And it’s all about the chemistry.
A [...]
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A primary part of my philosophy about writing wedding and commitment vows is that when you are talking about, writing about, pledging, thinking, etc., (7 tools of creation) you are creating a pathway that can be recreated every time you reread your vows.
This is mental science stuff.
In other words, it’s proven! Science has done tests [...]
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When writing personal weddings or commitment vows, there is a way to do it so that those vows can be the template for something spectacular. By using the 7 tools of creation, an individual, or a couple, can create something of lasting value that can defy all the odds. And do it easily.
The seven tools [...]
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I began my web career working with the idea of writing personal wedding vows as a power tool in the marriage toolbox. Then, after only one person signed up for my first test workshop, I developed a companion program I call LifeVows for singles. So now there are LifeVows for couples and LifeVows for singles.
This [...]
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